
Way of men philosophy
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3 Principles I follow, in social venues.
On 3rd September, 2021 night, I broke some of my own principles leading me to have terrible night at a bar in Mumbai. When I woke up next morning in a grumpy state of mind, I had to self reflect on my…
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The deciding factor for openers.
There is always a sense of dread in our stomach, which is so palpable, just before we are embarking to Open a random girl, as a means to the conversation. We are constantly rehearsing in our head, the exact nature of the…
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Arts in Seduction.
This incident goes way back, maybe 7 years ago. I had exchange numbers with a girl at a house party of a common friend. Sure, I liked her. We had well meaning conversation at the party. The following weekend, after we exchanged…
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Flirting Dynamics
Flirting is a language by itself. A language that has no written characters, but it has lots of non verbal cues, innuendos, a flow of light energy and a style of expression. A coy smile, a lingering look, a hidden glance, bantering,…
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A Note To Men
I am pleased to announced the launch of the first edition of “A Note to Men” newsletter. Let me walk you’ll through the story of how this newsletter came upon. There are three different parts to it that came together at the…
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Top Dating Coaches
Recently, I was featured among top dating coaches on a global portal; coachfoundation.com. As I was going through the list, parallely counting the number of dating coaches, I was taken by little surprise on number of dating coaches (37) on the list.…
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Why are you still a Virgin?
Not too long ago, I received a call from a man who is in his mid-30’s. He was explaining his situation pertaining to his non existent dating life. Then at one point he said, “I want to tell you something”. I replied…
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Focus on Source and Spirit, rather than technicalities only..
An amusing story to start with. A guy was chilling with his friend at an afternoon club. He noticed a pretty girl walking towards his direction. He sensed a mischief in her eyes, which delighted him. As she came closer to him,…
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Challenge of a Man is to overcome fear of Social embarrassment..
I remember this very vividly; I was looking at a girl and smiling at her. She too was looking at me/towards me side-eye, not to make it obvious (Girls usually do that). A moment came, when she made a call from her…
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My latest Contemplations on Men and love..
1. A man must not love (like) a woman more than she loves him. 2. A man must love something else (his adventure/journey) more than a woman.