Way of men philosophy
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Transactional Coaching vs. Transformational Coaching: Understanding the Difference
Most men think coaching is about getting better answers. Sometimes the real breakthrough comes from asking better questions. Here’s how transactional and transformational coaching differ, and why both have their place.
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Two A’s…(Attraction – Arousal)
This Post is primarily written for Heterosexual Men: Men often wonder how to attract a particular woman . But hardly any guy raises a question on how to arouse a particular woman or what in general arouses a woman. And this is…
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The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect.
We have a past, present and future. Instinct is what belongs to our animal past. It is very old, solid; it is the inheritance of million of years. While intellect is human, belonging to our present. We mostly function through our intellect.…
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Reframing ‘Rejection’…
Reject in literal sense means to ‘cast away’ which has been further evolved (in 1530’s) into ‘throw away as undesirable’. But the impact of being rejected has repercussions in human’s bones that no literal phrase can encapsulate it. We live in a…
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Consent: My Views
A simple dictionary meaning of the word Consent means someone allowing other to do something or mutually agree to do something. The recent metoo movement, emphasized the need for consent more than ever before. This movement also started the conversation regarding the…
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Technology has changed this about relationships forever…
A click or a tap can take us to different parts of the world, helps us become aware of different cultures, narratives, philosophy, people and hence different possibilities of life. Technology has revolutionized the way we live and want to live our…
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My Life As A Dating Coach
Being a Dating Coach in India is not a usual place to be in. It’s not uncommon for people of all ages and genders to probe my journey and life as a Dating Coach. And I think this is valid, because who…
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The Movie Clips I Recommend
Nine and half weeks. (Watch the way the lead actor, sub-communicates with his eyes from 1:14 secs). 2. Autumn In New York (The accidental yet intentional bump into two women communicates his delight for idea of men and women. You can skip…
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Top Dating Coaches
Recently, I was featured among top dating coaches on a global portal; coachfoundation.com. As I was going through the list, parallely counting the number of dating coaches, I was taken by little surprise on number of dating coaches (37) on the list.…
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How advent of texting has changed the way men show up…
In the movie nine and half weeks, Mickey Rourke (male actor) sends a note to Kim Bassinger (female note) with a bouquet of flowers, inviting her on a date with him. It’s 1980’s then. As I watched the particular scene, I wonder…
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Decoding Flirting…
I will put up a video clip first, then explain the context below the video. This particular clip is from a movie Last Night (2010). 1. The moment, girl enters the bar, the guy waiting for him gets up, pauses and smiles…