When I first heard Zan Perrion (Dating coach) saying that nightclubs are fools game, I dismissed his notion. He was asked about meeting and mating with women in nightclubs, to which he said that nightclubs seems abundant, but they are really not so. This was years back. As I have spend more time than most … Read more Nightclubs seems abundant source to men, but…
This incident goes way back, maybe 7 years ago. I had exchange numbers with a girl at a house party of a common friend. Sure, I liked her. We had well meaning conversation at the party. The following weekend, after we exchanged numbers, I invited her for lunch. She replied “Hey, I have committed to … Read more Arts in Seduction.
I am pleased to announced the launch of the first edition of “A Note to Men” newsletter. Let me walk you’ll through the story of how this newsletter came upon. There are three different parts to it that came together at the same time. I had certain restlessness in me arising in mid May and … Read more A Note To Men
The act of cold approaching women became popular and widely practiced worldwide, after the book “Game” was out in mass public. (Cold approaching is a term used to define an action of a man physically approaching a woman with intentions of mating). Not only it made sense to most men in technical terms, it gained … Read more Non invasive yet active cold approaching..
Just few weeks back, early in the afternoon, I was taking a stroll behind my house. The lane I was walking in was enveloped with trees on both sides. Afternoon sun was bright as it could be in Mumbai. Sunlight was partially held back by upper body of the trees, while some light managing to … Read more The subject of “Getting out of your head”.
As I live in Mumbai (south), things have partially opened up from the lockdown. But not much has really opened. Going for walks during evenings have become a sort of outing for mumbaikars now a days. Me included, is taking full advantage of this luxury afforded to us. But my longing has always been women … Read more What am I learning about approaching and meeting women during the pandemic.
Oh those secretive Victorians with their strict rules of etiquette! Unless a woman had been formally introduced to a man, it was considered poor etiquette to talk to him, dance with him or address him in any way. So what was a poor girl to do if she spotted a young man that made her … Read more Taking cues from Victorian times in post covid era to approach opposite sex.
Woody Allen once said, “80 percent of success is just showing up”. And most guys I end up coaching, don’t really show up in land of women. They say it’s work and so they don’t really get time to go out and socialise beyond the weekends. However, as this coronavirus is unfolding and work from … Read more Taking advantage of “Work from home” culture to meet women
SCENE: Few months back I was seated in a niche cafe at Palladium mall in Mumbai. Two girls were seated across me, engrossed in their conversation. Another pretty girl, all by herself, walking towards a table next to me after placing her order. As soon as she was in my proximity, I said, “You have … Read more An old cliche opener revamped.
Osho (Bhagwan Rajneesh) once said, “There are two human beings who have made a significant contribution to humanity, by helping us to understand human beings. One is Sigmund Freud and other is Aurobindo Ghosh”. Osho said, “Sigmund Freud touch the heights and Aurobindo Ghosh went to depths.” This remarked by Osho has always stayed with … Read more Two paths, Two different styles of learning to get good with women.