This is by far the most important thing I first explain when I begin my infield coaching. Practically in person it is easier to explain, but in words I doubt, i will able to do complete justice. But I’ll try. Women, I mean all, are very sensitive to the space around them, especially in a … Read more Women’s Space: Defining Factor of a woman response when a man approaches.
My take on this is bit contrary to usual advice out there. Lot of guys think and believe that, in a bar, a man should walk up to a woman and start talking with her. Especially in bars in India and Bangalore, I am not a big fan of “just approaching a girl” without any … Read more How do I approach women in bars in Bengaluru?
This is something I realised after years of going out approaching and meeting women in India. And this aspect about women, men are completely oblivious to and women consciously cannot articulate. So what am I talking about here? Women generally are “disenchanted” by men. To put in other words, most women to begin with are … Read more You have to know this about women in India.
I tell you a story to uncover the hidden reality of most of these approaches. (However, it does not apply to all) I was sitting in Starbucks. A white woman sat next to me ( in her 20’s and very attractive). We started talking. We spoke to each other about various things. Among them we … Read more How do some people acquire such great social skills? I just saw a guy in public who, cold, approached a woman and got her number while she was literally walking on the sidewalk, and they were talking for over 10+ minutes non-stop.
First, let me elaborate, what does “active cold approachers” signify to me. Active cold approachers are those guys, who approaches many women in any possible environment with a mindset of “conquesting target”. I am not going into the morality and ethical issues of having a conquesting mindset. It is what it is. However, here I … Read more Why Active cold approachers in India don’t do well?
“She was looking at me, what should I have Done?” This is the usual question we all dating coaches are asked. Let me clarify few things about eye contact. Women looking at you does not mean anything. We human beings in general tend to look at other people. For whatever reasons. So when you enter … Read more Eye Contact: How it actually works?
The moment we see a girl sitting/standing alone at a mall, cafe, airport, and especially bar, our masculine antenna goes up. Now that *girl* becomes our target. It use to happen with me often. But with conscious effort I obliterated *target* seeking mindset as default mindset. Rather, I start with paying attention. Paying attention to; … Read more I always saw a girl sitting alone. is there any best way to approach her?
As an infield dating coach in India, I get invited to all major metropolitan cities of India. And hence, I have a wider perspective in terms of social dynamics of Indian cities. I am ranking these cities in order. BANGALORE Bangalore in my experiences of both coaching and meeting women for myself ranks at the … Read more What are the best cities to meet single women?
This happened just yesterday (25th December, 2019). I was coaching a guy in mumbai. At around 9pm we made a halt to Starbucks Juhu. We took our seats (facing each other), started talking among us. Five to ten minutes later, three young and pretty girls enter. They took their seats at 45 degree angle to … Read more An endearing story that played out with my client
Dating Coach is not a regular profession in India. It’s new, unheard of and still not widely popular. Hence, I get asked a lot to explain and elaborate about my profession. There are two ways I coach men. Infield coaching Personal counselling Infield coaching happens to be my primary aspect of my profession. I would say … Read more What my coaching is all about?