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How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence

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Every man carries an internal voice. For most, this voice is not uplifting–it’s self-defeating, limiting, and discouraging. It tells you that you’re not good enough, not attractive enough, or that you might come across as a creep. It convinces you that you’ll be rejected, dismissed, or judged–so you hold back, retreat, or second-guess yourself. This … Read more How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence

What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating

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Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching men from all walks of life and across various age groups. Each age bracket brings its own mindset, challenges, and energy to the process of learning about women, attraction, and self-expression. Here’s what I’ve consistently observed about men—and clients—within different age groups: Ages 23 to 27 … Read more What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating

Managing the voices in your head.

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Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting … Read more Managing the voices in your head.

Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

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Audio Version below: I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the … Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

How my in-person coaching works….

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Audio Version: Nature of my coaching: I focus on transformational coaching for men in dating, relationships, and social skills through in-person presence of mine. The goal is deep internal change—shifting self-perception, natural confidence, and how one relates to women and social environments. Transformational coaching is very different in number of ways from traditional coaching provided … Read more How my in-person coaching works….

Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

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Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a … Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

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I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having … Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

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I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who … Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

A Brief Note On Dating Apps.

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RESEARCH SAYS THAT AMONG MANY FACTORS THAT MAKES A MAN ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN IS HIS ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES. (ESPECIALLY FOR LONG TERM MATING) AND BEING QUITE GOOD LOOKING AND VISUALLY APPEALING HELPS IN SHORT TERM MATING.. NATURALLY COMBINATION OF ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES AND VISUAL APPEAL IS THE KILLER FACTOR. ABSOLUTE INTELLIGENCE … Read more A Brief Note On Dating Apps.

Understanding where to meet women.

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Audio Version below Understanding Social Mediums in Dating and Relationships This post is for individuals who are at a stage in life where they are actively meeting new women—whether to mingle, date, or build relationships. As a coach, I have observed that many men have a limited understanding of how the nature of social environments … Read more Understanding where to meet women.

What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach?

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Let me begin with a caveat. My views are limited to experiences I had with men whom I got to interact with and observed as a coach. Of course, there are subset of men who live a different life, have different mindset, story, experiences and never thought of reaching out to people like me. So … Read more What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach?

There is this “One Woman” in some Men’s life..

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Many years back, probably 18 years ago, I had a dear friend in my college who was dating this girl. He was absolutely smitten by her. So much so, that during our 12th grade board exams (most important exams till that time) he used to travel to pick her up from her place ( which … Read more There is this “One Woman” in some Men’s life..

Why current generation lacks Social-Courting-Dating skills.

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Let’s go back to older days, maybe half a century back. What were the avenues for a man and woman to meet, mingle and get together? In western world, some would say churches, weddings, ball room parties, neighborhood bar, community, common friends, offices, colleges and universities. In eastern world it would be roughly the same … Read more Why current generation lacks Social-Courting-Dating skills.

Eyes: It’s role in mating.

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There is an old saying about Eyes: A human eyes have a unique capacity to look both inwards and outwards, One can close his eyes in meditation and look inwards, while with open eyes he can see outwards. Of all the five senses, sight is the most important in courtship-mating-romance-relationships dynamics. Usually for both men … Read more Eyes: It’s role in mating.