The title of my post “I am an introvert, I can’t approach girls” is invariably happens to be the way, a guy introduces himself to me. (I mean when a guy contacts me, seeking my coaching services). Now, after coaching over 2 and half years, I am pretty much sure, 95 percent of these guys … Read more “I am an Introvert, I can’t approach girls”
“She was looking at me, what should I have Done?” This is the usual question we all dating coaches are asked. Let me clarify few things about eye contact. Women looking at you does not mean anything. We human beings in general tend to look at other people. For whatever reasons. So when you enter … Read more Eye Contact: How it actually works?
Trying to impress women. Sometimes I feel we men are made to believe since our teenage years that we men have to proactively impress women. This is far from truth and it backfires. The reality is, women find those men attractive who are comfortable with who they are and yet stand out. However, unconsciously anything … Read more Common mistakes I have seen over years, Men make with Women
There are some men (very few actually) who get very favourable responses from women consistently. Why? What do these men do or possess that elicit such favourable responses from women? It’s the way they feel when a pretty woman shows up in their proximity. Most men, upon encountering a pretty woman anywhere, feel heavy, get … Read more Men who are GREAT with women have this one necessary quality
The two C’s I am talking about are chemistry and conversation. I have seen this with myself in early days and now while coaching, men get into a conversation with women and they keep on talking and talking, especially some banal stuff with a flat line vibe. And they assume, more they talk with the … Read more Men confuse these two C’s.
What to do if a girl is looking at You? Do this: Take a leap of faith. Take a leap of faith that, the particular girl looking at you likes your presence for whatever reasons. And because you are a boy and she is girl (obviously), her looking at you reassures that you matter as a … Read more “If a girl is looking at you”
In my career as a coach, I have seen many variables that make a man who he is currently. And naturally, one tend to see patterns among men. I, generally pay less attention to pattern which are not obvious, hard hitting and loud. However, there is one trait I have seen all the time among … Read more By far the most common trait among less socially intelligent men
“Women are suppose to be looked at or else they fade away” This remarkably insightful line is from a movie “fading Gigolo”, in a scene where a woman raises her arms towards herself for a man, who is shying away to gaze at her. Similarly, in the book “Zorba the Greek”, Zorba (wise grey hair … Read more How to look at Women.
Shout out to Zan Perrion for this; Try complimenting a woman on her attire without saying a word. (Off course the woman’s attire had to be worth complimenting) I mean with your eyes and the way you look at her, she should become aware that, you like what you See.
Dating Coach is not a regular profession in India. It’s new, unheard of and still not widely popular. Hence, I get asked a lot to explain and elaborate about my profession. There are two ways I coach men. Infield coaching Personal counselling Infield coaching happens to be my primary aspect of my profession. I would say … Read more What my coaching is all about?