Dating Coach
“She Was Looking at Me… Now What?” I’ve been told this countless times by men: “That girl was looking at me,” or “She keeps making eye contact with me.” But here’s the catch: most men don’t know what to do next. The common advice you’ll hear is: “Go and approach her.” Some might suggest the … Read more If a girl is looking đź‘€ at you across the room… What should you do?
Imagine the following scenario: A man is sitting alone in a cafĂ© on a quiet Monday late afternoon. At the next table, a woman is also seated by herself, casually browsing her phone with a cup of coffee beside her. She doesn’t appear to be in an intense or guarded mood—just relaxed, neutral. The man … Read more The hidden female communication explained.
Every man carries an internal voice. For most, this voice is not uplifting–it’s self-defeating, limiting, and discouraging. It tells you that you’re not good enough, not attractive enough, or that you might come across as a creep. It convinces you that you’ll be rejected, dismissed, or judged–so you hold back, retreat, or second-guess yourself. This … Read more How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching men from all walks of life and across various age groups. Each age bracket brings its own mindset, challenges, and energy to the process of learning about women, attraction, and self-expression. Here’s what I’ve consistently observed about men—and clients—within different age groups: Ages 23 to 27 … Read more What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating
Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting … Read more Managing the voices in your head.
Audio Version below: I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the … Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.
Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a … Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.