If a girl is looking đź‘€ at you across the room… What should you do?

Note: There is a podcast version also of this content at the bottom of the page. “She Was Looking at Me… Now What?” I’ve been told this countless times by men: “That girl was looking at me,” or “She keeps making eye contact with me.” But here’s the catch: most men don’t know what to … Read more If a girl is looking đź‘€ at you across the room… What should you do?

The hidden female communication explained.

Imagine the following scenario: A man is sitting alone in a cafĂ© on a quiet Monday late afternoon. At the next table, a woman is also seated by herself, casually browsing her phone with a cup of coffee beside her. She doesn’t appear to be in an intense or guarded mood—just relaxed, neutral. The man … Read more The hidden female communication explained.

Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women.

Note: There is a podcast version of the below transcript at the bottom of the page. Do listen to that also. One of the most common challenges Pratik hears from clients is this: “I don’t know what to say.” “What should I talk about?” This is a tricky area–because verbal communication isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s subjective, … Read more Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women.

How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence

Every man carries an internal voice. For most, this voice is not uplifting–it’s self-defeating, limiting, and discouraging. It tells you that you’re not good enough, not attractive enough, or that you might come across as a creep. It convinces you that you’ll be rejected, dismissed, or judged–so you hold back, retreat, or second-guess yourself. This … Read more How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence

What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating

Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching men from all walks of life and across various age groups. Each age bracket brings its own mindset, challenges, and energy to the process of learning about women, attraction, and self-expression. Here’s what I’ve consistently observed about men—and clients—within different age groups: Ages 23 to 27 … Read more What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating

Managing the voices in your head.

Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting … Read more Managing the voices in your head.

Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

Audio Version below: I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the … Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a … Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having … Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who … Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

What it takes to developed an uninhibited masculine expression?

In my view, one of the highest purpose of a man is to inhabit, what I call an “Uninhibited Masculine Expression”. Most men who call me as a coach, knowingly or unknowingly seek to unlock their expression as a man in the land of women.

Getting into so called friend-zone or being received by women anything but as their masculine opposite sex, is the by product of lack of uninhibited masculine expression.

Below is the flow chart that I have developed to simplify what it takes to unlock and refined an uninhibited masculine expression.