Way of men philosophy
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Understanding where to meet women.
Audio Version below Understanding Social Mediums in Dating and Relationships This post is for individuals who are at a stage in life where they are actively meeting new women—whether to mingle, date, or build relationships. As a coach, I have observed that…
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What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach for South Asian Men?
Let me begin with a caveat. My views are limited to experiences I had with men whom I got to interact with and observed as a coach. Of course, there are subset of men who live a different life, have different mindset,…
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There is this “One Woman” in some Men’s life..
Many years back, probably 18 years ago, I had a dear friend in my college who was dating this girl. He was absolutely smitten by her. So much so, that during our 12th grade board exams (most important exams till that time)…
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To Be Respected or Likeable…
In mid 2000’s there was a popular T.V. show named Sopranos. The primary character was played by James Gandolfini as Tony Soprano, a mafia boss. In the T.V. show James character was portrayed as a man respected by all, even feared to…
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Bar Scene: Break Down.
Follow these Steps: Watch the full clip. Read the breakdown of the clip. Re-Watch the clip. Breakdown of the clip. Scene: Bunch of friends/colleagues in a bar having dinner and drinks. One of the guys, let’s call him Guy A spots an…
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Why current generation lacks Social-Courting-Dating skills.
Let’s go back to older days, maybe half a century back. What were the avenues for a man and woman to meet, mingle and get together? In western world, some would say churches, weddings, ball room parties, neighborhood bar, community, common friends,…
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Two A’s…(Attraction – Arousal)
This Post is primarily written for Heterosexual Men: Men often wonder how to attract a particular woman . But hardly any guy raises a question on how to arouse a particular woman or what in general arouses a woman. And this is…
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The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect.
We have a past, present and future. Instinct is what belongs to our animal past. It is very old, solid; it is the inheritance of million of years. While intellect is human, belonging to our present. We mostly function through our intellect.…
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Reframing ‘Rejection’…
Reject in literal sense means to ‘cast away’ which has been further evolved (in 1530’s) into ‘throw away as undesirable’. But the impact of being rejected has repercussions in human’s bones that no literal phrase can encapsulate it. We live in a…
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Consent: My Views
A simple dictionary meaning of the word Consent means someone allowing other to do something or mutually agree to do something. The recent metoo movement, emphasized the need for consent more than ever before. This movement also started the conversation regarding the…