Way of men philosophy
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Transactional Coaching vs. Transformational Coaching: Understanding the Difference
Most men think coaching is about getting better answers. Sometimes the real breakthrough comes from asking better questions. Here’s how transactional and transformational coaching differ, and why both have their place.
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How Men Can Deal With Insecurities in Dating: My Personal Experience
Some insecurities are exaggerated by our minds. Others have some basis in reality. My experience with my own biggest insecurity taught me a different way to deal with both. One change I made deliberately is the paragraph beginning “And I think this…
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Why Hong Kong is the best place in Asia to develop your social skills
After coaching clients in Hong Kong twice, I have found the city to be one of Asia’s best environments for developing social confidence, meeting women and practising real-world social skills.
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Why Are South Asian Men Embarrassed to Admit They Hired a Dating Coach?
Why do some South Asian men feel embarrassed to admit that hired dating coach? After years of coaching men across different socioeconomic backgrounds, I’ve noticed that the shame can sometimes be greater among highly successful men. This is an exploration of dating,…
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Are Cocktail Bars Good Places to Meet Women?
Cocktail bars can create natural opportunities to meet women—but their social rhythm requires nuance. Here is why they work and how to interact without forcing an approach.
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Cold Approaching Will Not Make You Good With Women
Cold approaching is a place to begin, not the thing that makes a man good with women.
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Dating in Singapore for Men
Honest take on why Singapore is a harder dating market for men, what’s different about the culture, and how to actually meet women there.
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Men Think in Channels. Women Think in Context.
For a man, any place is a chance to meet a woman. For a woman, the place needs a story she can tell her friends, and herself. Understanding this one difference explains why the same approach works in one setting and fails…
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The Headwind: Dating as a South Asian Man (Immigrated) in the West.
A lot of South Asian men who moved abroad carry a quiet loneliness — you did everything you were told would work, and still feel invisible. There’s a headwind: skin, accent, the way your face gets read. It’s real. Here’s the honest…
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Stop Saving Your Best Self for the Ones You Want
A wine bar in Hong Kong, a borrowed glass, and two senior bankers who are still in touch. Why playing small only for the people you want costs you the doors you never see.