Source: A Note to Men, Instagram. There is this notion, if a man wants to meet girls (in offline setting) he must go to nightclubs/bars. And it makes sense if you think about it. The volume of women is good, the context is social and the guards are down. Yet, something is elusive about nightclubs/bars … Read more Girls and Nightclubs…
What’s the usual way guys approach and mingle with girls in initial moments? Of course, each individual has his own style, but barring 1 percent all other guys use hoops. Hoops are close to unnecessary conversational frames. In essence hoops are used as a social lubricant to avoid overwhelming-ness of direct point. For example a … Read more Plain Speaking Method..
Source: A Note to Men, Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/CdHjol_vR7m/ The notion that men should not chase Woman, is so widely proposed by high value men like Morgan Freeman, Dan Blizerian, etc. Even some of the world’s renowned Dating Coaches strongly suggests men, to give up on chasing women. Then am I trying to get some attention by … Read more Chase Woman…
Source: A Note to Men, Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/CeHCiuyjWU2/ A man’s primary sexual tool is designed to thrust, while woman’s sexual organ is designed to receive the thrust. However, thrusting and receiving in humans is not limited to physicality like in animals, it extends in Spirit. We humans carry an internal story in all our acts, including … Read more Man Thrusts, Woman Receives
A simple dictionary meaning of the word Consent means someone allowing other to do something or mutually agree to do something. The recent metoo movement, emphasized the need for consent more than ever before. This movement also started the conversation regarding the Grey area that exists in the application of consent. I am not sure … Read more Consent: My Views
A click or a tap can take us to different parts of the world, helps us become aware of different cultures, narratives, philosophy, people and hence different possibilities of life. Technology has revolutionized the way we live and want to live our life. It has redefined our motivations. One of the strong motivations that technology … Read more Technology has changed this about relationships forever…
This Incident took place almost 6 years back. At that time, I was mostly in my head trying to talk my way in with women. The concept of conversation was the only dimension I was aware of. However until one fine afternoon, the narrative that ‘conversational skills is all that matters’ flipped on its head … Read more An Incident That Flipped My Narrative.
I am not revealing a secret by telling you that one of most common questions I am asked as a Dating Coach is “How to strike a conversation with a new girl?” or something along that lines. The underpinning assumption among most men is that, the conversation is the most powerful tool to attract a … Read more Conversations, an over-rated tool to attract women.
I had clients expressing their deep concerns regarding their short height, physical disability, or some physical flaw which cannot be altered favorably. There is a always a sense of limitation in the back of their mind because of their physical impairment or short height. And this limitation holds them back to express themselves confidently around … Read more How do I handle or respond to a remark on my physical flaw?
Being a Dating Coach in India is not a usual place to be in. It’s not uncommon for people of all ages and genders to probe my journey and life as a Dating Coach. And I think this is valid, because who in their right and rational mind will think of making a living as … Read more My Life As A Dating Coach