Managing the voices in your head.

Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting … Read more Managing the voices in your head.

How my in-person coaching works….

Audio Version: Nature of my coaching: I focus on transformational coaching for men in dating, relationships, and social skills through in-person presence of mine. The goal is deep internal change—shifting self-perception, natural confidence, and how one relates to women and social environments. Transformational coaching is very different in number of ways from traditional coaching provided … Read more How my in-person coaching works….

Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a … Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.

Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having … Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who … Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

Eyes: It’s role in mating.

There is an old saying about Eyes: A human eyes have a unique capacity to look both inwards and outwards, One can close his eyes in meditation and look inwards, while with open eyes he can see outwards. Of all the five senses, sight is the most important in courtship-mating-romance-relationships dynamics. Usually for both men … Read more Eyes: It’s role in mating.