Managing the voices in your head.

Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting … Read more Managing the voices in your head.

Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

Audio Version below: I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the … Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.

How my in-person coaching works….

Audio Version: Nature of my coaching: I focus on transformational coaching for men in dating, relationships, and social skills through in-person presence of mine. The goal is deep internal change—shifting self-perception, natural confidence, and how one relates to women and social environments. Transformational coaching is very different in number of ways from traditional coaching provided … Read more How my in-person coaching works….

Permission to “Feel”: Becoming a perceptive man.

Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a … Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming a perceptive man.

Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having … Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…

Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who … Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..

What it takes to developed an uninhibited masculine expression?

In my view, one of the highest purpose of a man is to inhabit, what I call an “Uninhibited Masculine Expression”. Most men who call me as a coach, knowingly or unknowingly seek to unlock their expression as a man in the land of women.

Getting into so called friend-zone or being received by women anything but as their masculine opposite sex, is the by product of lack of uninhibited masculine expression.

Below is the flow chart that I have developed to simplify what it takes to unlock and refined an uninhibited masculine expression.