Should a man stare at a woman?

You must have been told or heard it from somewhere, “Don’t give dirty look to a woman”. But what constitutes a “Dirty look?” Have you, ever pondered over this? Just ask yourself, would your eyes, energy, body will gravitate towards beautiful looking architecture of towers/buildings or slums? We as human beings (especially men) gravitate towards … Read more Should a man stare at a woman?

“What women want?” Not my style of learning and coaching.

The core of most (over 90 percent) literature of coaching/learning to get good with women stems from this one particular question, “What women want?”. And it seems a valid way to go about it. You understand what women want and then by whatever means and strategies if you fulfill that need/want, women will gravitate towards … Read more “What women want?” Not my style of learning and coaching.

Taking cues from Victorian times in post covid era to approach opposite sex.

Oh those secretive Victorians with their strict rules of etiquette!  Unless a woman had been formally introduced to a man, it was considered poor etiquette to talk to him, dance with him or address him in any way.   So what was a poor girl to do if she spotted a young man that made her … Read more Taking cues from Victorian times in post covid era to approach opposite sex.

How to imbibe unapologetic-ness about your desires with social grace?

This post is a necessary follow up of my previous post https://wayofmen.in/index.php/2020/06/10/what-does-it-means-to-be-unapologetic-about-your-desires-as-a-man/ Some of my readers after reading the previous post, were worried about coming off as creepy, while some misunderstood as being unabashed with women. I am glad, I received generous feedback, that has given me an opportunity to clarify about this “unapologetic about … Read more How to imbibe unapologetic-ness about your desires with social grace?

What does it means to be “unapologetic about your desires as a man?”

I will narrate a brief story about Zan Perrion (legendary ladies man), picked up from his book The Alabaster Girl. Once Zan was walking at a departmental store name saks fifth avenue in New York. As he was walking, a pretty sales-girl called him out, “Sir would you like to try this perfume it’s very … Read more What does it means to be “unapologetic about your desires as a man?”

Two paths, Two different styles of learning to get good with women.

Osho (Bhagwan Rajneesh) once said, “There are two human beings who have made a significant contribution to humanity, by helping us to understand human beings. One is Sigmund Freud and other is Aurobindo Ghosh”. Osho said, “Sigmund Freud touch the heights and Aurobindo Ghosh went to depths.” This remarked by Osho has always stayed with … Read more Two paths, Two different styles of learning to get good with women.

Change the questions you ask yourself to become Great with women.

There is an old saying, *the quality of a man’s life is determined by the quality of questions he asks himself*. Well, this holds absolutely true in literature of getting great with women also. I, in my initial stages of learning and understanding of picking up girls, was more concerned about small questions, which I’ll … Read more Change the questions you ask yourself to become Great with women.

Spirituality, in the process of getting good with women.

Just yesterday (17th April), an interview was aired on YouTube. It was, Karan Thapar interviewing famous Political Strategist Prashant Kishor. Prashant Kishor was asked about Narendra Modi’s best quality. (As he has worked in close quarters with Narendra Modi) To which he said, “When Narendra Modi speaks with you, he makes you feel, he is … Read more Spirituality, in the process of getting good with women.