Dating Coach
Many years back, probably 18 years ago, I had a dear friend in my college who was dating this girl. He was absolutely smitten by her. So much so, that during our 12th grade board exams (most important exams till that time) he used to travel to pick her up from her place ( which … Read more There is this “One Woman” in some Men’s life..
In mid 2000’s there was a popular T.V. show named Sopranos. The primary character was played by James Gandolfini as Tony Soprano, a mafia boss. In the T.V. show James character was portrayed as a man respected by all, even feared to some degree. So, why am I bringing this to your notice here? Well … Read more To Be Respected or Likeable…
Follow these Steps: Watch the full clip. Read the breakdown of the clip. Re-Watch the clip. Breakdown of the clip. Scene: Bunch of friends/colleagues in a bar having dinner and drinks. One of the guys, let’s call him Guy A spots an attractive woman by the bar counter with her friends. With some encouragement from … Read more Bar Scene: Break Down.
We have a past, present and future. Instinct is what belongs to our animal past. It is very old, solid; it is the inheritance of million of years. While intellect is human, belonging to our present. We mostly function through our intellect. All our sciences, all our businesses, all our professions are based on our … Read more The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect.
Reject in literal sense means to ‘cast away’ which has been further evolved (in 1530’s) into ‘throw away as undesirable’. But the impact of being rejected has repercussions in human’s bones that no literal phrase can encapsulate it. We live in a world where idealistic living is imposed on people. There is this constant narrative … Read more Reframing ‘Rejection’…
There is an old saying about Eyes: A human eyes have a unique capacity to look both inwards and outwards, One can close his eyes in meditation and look inwards, while with open eyes he can see outwards. Of all the five senses, sight is the most important in courtship-mating-romance-relationships dynamics. Usually for both men … Read more The Magical And Most Powerful Sensory Organ…
What’s the usual way guys approach and mingle with girls in initial moments? Of course, each individual has his own style, but barring 1 percent all other guys use hoops. Hoops are close to unnecessary conversational frames. In essence hoops are used as a social lubricant to avoid overwhelming-ness of direct point. For example a … Read more Plain Speaking Method..
A simple dictionary meaning of the word Consent means someone allowing other to do something or mutually agree to do something. The recent metoo movement, emphasized the need for consent more than ever before. This movement also started the conversation regarding the Grey area that exists in the application of consent. I am not sure … Read more Consent: My Views
This Incident took place almost 6 years back. At that time, I was mostly in my head trying to talk my way in with women. The concept of conversation was the only dimension I was aware of. However until one fine afternoon, the narrative that ‘conversational skills is all that matters’ flipped on its head … Read more An Incident That Flipped My Narrative.
I am not revealing a secret by telling you that one of most common questions I am asked as a Dating Coach is “How to strike a conversation with a new girl?” or something along that lines. The underpinning assumption among most men is that, the conversation is the most powerful tool to attract a … Read more Conversations, an over-rated tool to attract women.
