Dating Coach
Follow these Steps: Watch the full clip. Read the breakdown of the clip. Re-Watch the clip. Breakdown of the clip. Scene: Bunch of friends/colleagues in a bar having dinner and drinks. One of the guys, let’s call him Guy A spots an attractive woman by the bar counter with her friends. With some encouragement from … Read more Bar Scene: Break Down.
This Post is primarily written for Heterosexual Men: Men often wonder how to attract a particular woman . But hardly any guy raises a question on how to arouse a particular woman or what in general arouses a woman. And this is simply because most men are not aware of the distinction between the two. … Read more Two A’s…(Attraction – Arousal)
We have a past, present and future. Instinct is what belongs to our animal past. It is very old, solid; it is the inheritance of million of years. While intellect is human, belonging to our present. We mostly function through our intellect. All our sciences, all our businesses, all our professions are based on our … Read more The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect.
There is an old saying about Eyes: A human eyes have a unique capacity to look both inwards and outwards, One can close his eyes in meditation and look inwards, while with open eyes he can see outwards. Of all the five senses, sight is the most important in courtship-mating-romance-relationships dynamics. Usually for both men … Read more The Magical And Most Powerful Sensory Organ…
What’s the usual way guys approach and mingle with girls in initial moments? Of course, each individual has his own style, but barring 1 percent all other guys use hoops. Hoops are close to unnecessary conversational frames. In essence hoops are used as a social lubricant to avoid overwhelming-ness of direct point. For example a … Read more Plain Speaking Method..
A click or a tap can take us to different parts of the world, helps us become aware of different cultures, narratives, philosophy, people and hence different possibilities of life. Technology has revolutionized the way we live and want to live our life. It has redefined our motivations. One of the strong motivations that technology … Read more Technology has changed this about relationships forever…
I am not revealing a secret by telling you that one of most common questions I am asked as a Dating Coach is “How to strike a conversation with a new girl?” or something along that lines. The underpinning assumption among most men is that, the conversation is the most powerful tool to attract a … Read more Conversations, an over-rated tool to attract women.
At first look, the flowchart may appear complex to process it, so hold it tight. As you read down, concepts will get clearer. Let me begin by defining what primitive and social represents in the above flow chart. “Primitive” means un-conditioned intellect of our sexual nature; while “Social” means conditioned, diluted by our surroundings and … Read more Flow of male-female arousal process
The biggest concern a man has when looking at a pretty girl is to not come off as creepy; far from being labelled as one. Yet women in general are beings of beauty, a man naturally wants to see and look at them. It is a one of the most natural reflex of the man. … Read more The Artist technique.
When I first heard Zan Perrion (Dating coach) saying that nightclubs are fools game, I dismissed his notion. He was asked about meeting and mating with women in nightclubs, to which he said that nightclubs seems abundant, but they are really not so. This was years back. As I have spend more time than most … Read more Nightclubs seems abundant source to men, but…
I am pleased to announced the launch of the first edition of “A Note to Men” newsletter. Let me walk you’ll through the story of how this newsletter came upon. There are three different parts to it that came together at the same time. I had certain restlessness in me arising in mid May and … Read more A Note To Men
1. A man must not love (like) a woman more than she loves him. 2. A man must love something else (his adventure/journey) more than a woman.
Have you been out on a weekends, especially at afternoons, in some cafes or restaurants where they cater to younger crowd? If yes, then you must have noticed, a peculiar feature about these weekend afternoons. And that is, girls in twos, threes, dressed up girlie, banded together forming an invisible boundary. This is peculiar to … Read more A facet about girls, guys must know…
Just few weeks back, early in the afternoon, I was taking a stroll behind my house. The lane I was walking in was enveloped with trees on both sides. Afternoon sun was bright as it could be in Mumbai. Sunlight was partially held back by upper body of the trees, while some light managing to … Read more The subject of “Getting out of your head”.
Men and women meet and mate in variety of ways. From a dance floor of a club to online dating apps, there are different routes with different rhythm and pace, men and women follow. This particular scene, divided in two parts, encapsulates the mating energy that happens in a cafe. It also strongly resembles my … Read more Breakdown of a scene that encapsulates mating dance..
Some weekday afternoon, I was seated on a common table in a cafe, reading some fiction book. It so happened, within few minutes of me being there, a young lady, dressed formally, choose to seat across me on the same table. Shoulder length hair, white formal shirt, beige pants, dusky tone with her office Armour. … Read more The time I did not make a move..
This particular exercise, I first heard from Zan Perrion. Try complimenting a girl on her dress or appearance without saying anything. How? By the way you look at her, the emotions in your eyes, the way you smile on seeing her, the delight on your face. Similarly try letting her know that you find her … Read more Practical exercise to improve non verbal communication..
When a young teen boy, asks his elderly male to give him some tips or suggestions on wooing girls, the first thing elderly man would say, “Give her compliments, son”. Giving women compliments has been an age old advice for men. In fact, this tradition was further carried by daygame pick up artists, who ran … Read more Giving Compliments
Oh those secretive Victorians with their strict rules of etiquette! Unless a woman had been formally introduced to a man, it was considered poor etiquette to talk to him, dance with him or address him in any way. So what was a poor girl to do if she spotted a young man that made her … Read more The ways of Victorians…
William Shakespeare once said, “Women communicate in two ways, one of them is verbal, while other forms the major part”. Non verbal communication of and from women, have always been elusive from men. Most men are unaware of its existence, leave alone the importance of it. Non verbal communication branchs out into tonality, body language, … Read more Decoding non verbal communication of eyes from women.
In ancient times WOMEN encouraged men to go away on the fishing trip. This is the ruse used by women since time immemorial to make men leave for a while so a woman can either be by herself or be with other women. Women wish men knew that women desire to live in a solely … Read more Women secretly wish men know this..
For years I have studied nothing but women. The way they move, the way they look, the way they talk, the way they sit, the way they mate, etc. In all these years of studying and understanding the way of women, I recognise one fact of how women mate. Women give out signals of invitation … Read more Signs/Hints a woman wants to be approach